Sometimes people rush into sex because they're excited to be with that person, but there are many sexy things you can do with someone before you have sex with them. Or maybe you just want to spice things up a bit. Either way, if you do some of these activities before sex, it can make the sex even better.
Dance: If a guy can bust a move it lets a woman know that he knows how to keep rhythm and beat in the bedroom. The sheer fact that he's on the dance floor also shows some major confidence - which is a major turn-on! And nothing turns a guy on more than a sexy little striptease.
Play with your food: Do you have whip cream? Chocolate syrup? Peppermint Schnapps? Put them on your lover's body and sensuously lick them off.
Play games: There are numerous sexual pleasuring games at sex toy shops, or you could break out the cards and play an old-fashioned game of strip poker. It's all about having fun and getting naked to slowly work up your appetite.
Get Dirty: You can all in the middle of the day, or before going to bed, but talking dirty to your lover can help them get turned on without getting physical. You can also get dirty by rough-housing and playing sports outside; the endorphins running through your body from the exercise will make you extra excited.
Clean up: Instead of getting dirty, decide to clean up. By working on chores together you get a sense of closeness, and new ideas for new places to do the deed or household items you may want to take into the bedroom. Another way to clean up: take a shower together; by the time you're done rubbing each other clean you'll be ready to get dirty again.
Foreplay: Sometimes all you need is to round all the bases, spending a little extra time at third base (oral sex) can lead to a long sexy make out session.